![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgQe1yHQRW958FbncfG4ZRfG8q_t5v7JA4G__kjeOHv7nMJx7PlvMOdZrcYq5w3tTZUWkdXKml8iPw71YBpzH8rDH-DTvTDU77r7bwzDTiccWY8ePNowzFyDOvWEfMwOeLsKXF9lTmWNYk/s1600/staghorn+fern_3+copy.jpg)
Over the past several months I've been embracing something a little unnatural for me: the slow down. Contrary to my "I can do anything and everything," efficiency-high loving, ultra productive tendencies, I'm getting to know the value of recognizing and being happy with taking a little more time to enjoy my day in a quality instead of quantity type way.
![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgLGnkH0HsBRb-XdRi_rMwdyY8BK0REYPa8zjhzZnsT6fGnKiRZm-m3rKiqRH4UO_094HSNKkuRHJQWz5lQQZ2qzzWElt9uh79Jbv-cVBNd4rHx8teTtHLgQEhSNlF676Lg55_xskMi6VA/s1600/staghorn+fern+copy.jpg)
In terms of decorating rooms in my apartment, that has meant slow adjustments instead of blitz finishing a room in one weekend.
Which brings me to my lovely new plant: a gorgeous Staghorn Fern (from Serendipity in Old Town Temecula) perfect for the empty corner in my dining nook.
![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEibdUgpSbQV21-8_uiqEb_ex2vPQ7ISOIdKOoeUMPtE3Isy5YVOl0P7G8HyLQJGpDJhuAHEquFumUPWpVi8ilmKHP067pg86HB2TT5qrAw0i3PUKWRzkroT2bfGdziMIfjYtvVfGwDacSA/s1600/staghorn+fern_1+copy.jpg)
So here's how the slow-changes went down... That corner started with a 6 foot fiddle leaf fig tree - a set-up that ran into some problems:
1. The kitchen heating vent was right next to the tree - Mr. Fig hated having hot air blown on him and lost several leaves in protest.
2. The size of the tree made the dining area feel a little cramped.
3. Tim and I want to add a small bar cart to the dining room and Mr. Fig was taking up prime cart real estate.
![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEipVl1t1tnWAFf9WTaO_lzsesUokKtyawbGBGd9PT32BDmRovJAyHW4EE3q1XDkvk5pYrXU1rjSWq_KzsLpaR-45dG-O8Z0tYSbeyA6fY4n2eCIkvtIQmJPErR2Rp-qurdsYr0hJ_UCpGU/s1600/dining+room+reveal+with+rug+insideways_3+small.jpg)
So, Mr. Fig moved out and Lady Philodendron moved in. She was wild, curvy, filled the space beautifully and... oh... toxic to cats. Dangit.
![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh5k1GqnBBQxzdh4-luTPyGBdJE4ukmAngqkL1NGO2ESwfLMm73cGa9XELPSbyE49p6Z1YYlRkxC4sx0X7xkf_om8xzLPboAHxHad9ZXcFmunLXQESopHzzSLGRLr24ktIuSLgVfvWNLB4/s1600/philodendron.jpg)
Don't worry, the cats are fine.
In the end, I'm glad Lady Philodendron didn't work out because look at this Staghorn...!
![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEggEsIlbtxK6V_3JpG_BmbgggIIYzNlNkxU_5joSXBybNSsnPD5O35pqoix0wVtE6qvkdahWLfke2abnUPpOo0oAA9iB353n_M7L4pvzX1h8FeJbXdIVt3YdHxiM6zL0xWeAAVDoOEdB6I/s1600/staghorn+fern_2+small.jpg)
That's one sexy fern.
Next up - find a cute bar cart! Fill it with cute glasses and yummy liquors! Live like beautiful people straight out of Mad Men. Well, maybe that last one's a little ambitious...
What do you think? Are you digging the fern? How do you like to decorate - slow steps or all at once?